Bisexual individuals often face erasure of their identity when they are in a relationship that aligns with traditional norms. This is why Bisexual Visibility Day, observed on September 23, holds significance for those who identify as bisexual. It serves as a platform to celebrate their identity and acknowledge the historical contributions of bisexual individuals. The day is a part of Bisexuality Awareness Week, which aims to promote awareness of bisexual identities and foster cultural acceptance of bisexual people in society.
Nicky Wake, a 54-year-old bisexual woman, discovered her sexuality during her teenage years. Despite being married to a man in 2002, she faced misconceptions from her family, who regarded her attraction to women as a passing phase.
Reflecting on her journey, Nicky shared that she first realized her attraction to women at the age of 15. Despite initial confusion, she eventually embraced her bisexuality. Encouraged by a former partner who identified as bisexual, she explored her feelings and had relationships with women before meeting her soulmate, Andy Wake.
After Andy’s passing, Nicky faced societal expectations that she would revert to dating men, but she followed her heart and continued dating women. She emphasized the importance of Bisexual Visibility Day in promoting dialogue and understanding about bisexuality, challenging stereotypes, and validating bisexuality as a legitimate sexual orientation.
Currently residing in Manchester City Centre and the founder of Chapter 2 Dating, Nicky embraces her authentic self and finds empowerment in living openly. She believes that the day of visibility plays a crucial role in normalizing bisexuality, fostering inclusivity, and dismantling misconceptions about bisexual individuals.
