Trail Guide Turned Lifelong Friendships

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In this personal account, Grace Stelmachowicz from Squamish, B.C., shares her journey. For more stories like this, refer to CBC’s First Person FAQ.

From a young age, I was taught a linear path to success: attend university, find a job in your chosen field, get married, purchase a house, and start a family. This narrative, passed down from my parents and reinforced by my high school counselor, was the blueprint I was following in 2016 upon completing my second year of biomedical engineering studies at the University of Guelph.

After unsuccessful attempts to secure a summer engineering position in Ontario, I unexpectedly landed a job at a horseback trail riding establishment in Banff National Park. Despite deviating from my predetermined success trajectory, I embraced this opportunity confidently due to my extensive experience riding horses on our family farm in southern Ontario during my childhood years.

A woman sitting bareback on a horse bends down to hug it.
Grace Stelmachowicz, pictured here in 2015 with her horse Sonny, developed her passion for horseback riding on her family’s farm in southern Ontario. (Submitted by Grace Stelmachowicz)

During my time in Banff, I had the privilege of exploring the rugged Rockies on horseback, fulfilling my childhood dream of riding in the mountains. As a guide, I led guests through pine forests, drove horse-drawn wagons along the Bow River, and escorted visitors to elk-filled wildflower meadows.

To me, a fulfilling life does not solely entail desk work and corporate advancement. It now involves cherishing simple moments, like a peaceful morning before a busy day or the gratitude for residing in a picturesque environment. This newfound perspective also encompasses enduring challenging days, such as toiling in the rain for long hours, knowing that warmth and comfort await by the fireside with a cup of tea after work.

Engaging in seasonal work introduced me to remarkable individuals who have become lifelong friends.

I encountered individuals in their late twenties taking a career hiatus, international workers funding their travels through seasonal employment, and others committed to year-round seasonal work alternating between summer and winter roles. These friendships significantly influenced my perception of a fulfilling life.

Enduring Bonds

The relationships formed during my tenure as a trail guide stand out from those cultivated in academic settings or within my current office job. As seasonal workers, we lived, worked, and socialized together around the clock for extended periods, fostering deep and enduring connections.

Some of my closest friends to this day are former colleagues from Banff, like Katie and Phil from Australia, who visited my family’s home in Utopia, Ont., in 2016 to experience their first Canadian winter holiday. These friends always have a place at my home, despite the passage of years since our initial meeting. Katie will soon visit, and we plan to embark on a winter camping adventure, relishing every moment together amidst the mountains.

Two men and four women with sweeping brooms stand on the painted circles of a curling rink.
Grace Stelmachowicz, third from the left, hosted her Australian colleagues, Phil Main (second from left) and Katie de Jong (fourth from the left), at her family’s residence in Ontario in 2016. The guests partook in a game of curling with Stelmachowicz’s family. (Submitted by Grace Stelmachowicz)

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